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… when your blog friends start wondering why you haven’t posted. Has it really been six weeks? Yikes! Sorry guys. It’s just been really insane. So I guess I owe you all an update, right? OK … here goes! π
Work has taken up a huge amount of time and energy the last couple of months. In some ways it’s been really good. My new cohort has been doing a terrific job and has been a huge help. We’ve had some fun actually building up hardware even though there have been a number of challenges. But challenges can be good too … helping someone get through problems is one of the best teaching tools I know of. And I’ve had my own set of challenges dealing with idiotic management types. Those same clueless twits that refuse to listen and are always surprised when I lay it out for them … regardless of the fact that I brought the same stuff up (repeatedly) over the past year or so. I could continue to aggravate myself with trying to explain things using logic, but that would require that they actually listen and have the desire to learn. They’re clearly not interested in that though, so I’ve decided to change tactics. I’m using what some might call “passive resistance” at this point.
For the near term at least, they need me more than I need them. They know this and are a little afraid I’ll just say “screw it” and take a month off or quit, so I can push back a little more than some other folks can. So I decided that it would be better for my mental health (and blood pressure) to just box them into doing things my way. I’ve been putting together my own schedules for the tasks I’m responsible for … and then emailing those schedules to the twits, and their boss. Basically I’ve said “your schedules are unrealistic so here’s MY schedule that meets your end date and this is all I will commit to”. We’ve already gone toe-to-toe on the first one I sent out … and if I believe the immediate boss (still not sure if I do) he got nailed for my task starting two weeks after he had it scheduled to start. Oh well. They’ll either learn or they won’t but I can’t let that be a factor anymore. I’m only concerned with making sure the hardware stays safe and gets put together correctly. If it doesn’t, there’s not much point in launching the satellite. π
On the home front, it seems there’s been less time for chores. I’m not sure that’s really true, but I never seem to have enough time to get everything done let alone trying to get time to goof off. I’ve mostly managed to keep up with reading blogs but haven’t gotten much farther on my own than starting a few drafts that have languished in the dashboard area. I suppose I’ll finish them when they are needed. I have managed to eek out a little time to do a few things. I got the spring version headpiece and wreath made (though I need to take pictures) and was able to get a bracelet fixed that I’d broken. I’m currently working on a dream catcher for the granddaughter-to-be and hope to have that done in time for the baby shower in June … but damn they take a lot of time! I still haven’t gotten to the blouses I want to make, but I figure worst case I can drag the new sewing machine up to Shasta with me. We did make some time to hit the Ren Faire in April and had a few hours of fun. Darling Daughter did better than she thought she would. She was concerned she’d only be able to do a couple of hours, but made it almost four. Though she had to put up with a little teasing as she’s started to do that “waddle” that all us moms know too well.
On the working with energy front, I’ve not had nearly enough time to play with my grids. But the last few weeks I’ve been taking a Reiki class that Darling Daughter is teaching. It’s been a lot of fun but it too has some challenges. It’s yet another situation where I’ve had to process a lot of energy and there have been a few issues with that, but for the most part it’s really cool. There are four people in the class and we practice on each other so we know what to look for if/when we deal with others. I’m enjoying it enough that I’m considering using it to help others assuming I can find the time. I can see where it could definitely end up helping me in the long run.
That’s pretty much what’s been going on here, and keeping me from blogging. And we’re five weeks from heading to Shasta … I’m definitely looking forward to that! Now if I can just get caught up on the rest of the household chores by the time we’re ready to head out, I’ll be really happy.
Hope you are all doing well. Now that summer is knocking at the door I’m sure we’ll all be just a little busier. And I’ll see if I can kick loose another post or two in the next couple of weeks. π
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Kathryn McCullough said:
Great to hear from you, D. Sounds like you are, indeed, crazy-busy but semi-sane despite the intensity–so, congrats! Happy Mother’s Day, my friend!
Hugs,
Kathy
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dragonfae said:
Thanks Kathy! Happy Mother’s Day to you too! (hey, furbabies count, right?)
*hugs* back to ya!
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John Erickson said:
Normally, I’d tell you that you “eke” out time, not “eek”. Then again, the way it’s been going with you, “eek” sounds a lot more accurate! π
I’d also say I was up to my butthole in alligators, but with some of the idiots around here, it’s more like being up to my alligators in …. well, you get the idea. π
And a second wish for a Happy Mother’s Day!
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dragonfae said:
Ugh … another grammar nazi eh? sigh. Just kidding dear! Too bad Firefox’s spell check doesn’t do grammar too! π
And thanks for the mommy-day wishes … we had a nice dinner with DD and her hubby. π
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John Erickson said:
Me, a grammar Nazi? Nope – no grandkids. And if I did have grandkids, wouldn’t I be a grampa Nazi? π
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dragonfae said:
*chuckles* That’s kinda cute. π
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aFrankAngle said:
Dang D-Fae… and I thought i would the only person who ever encountered clueless work twits. Meanwhile, thanks for taking the time to fills us in … and Happy Mother’s Day!
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dragonfae said:
Frank, you’d be appalled at some of the crap these fools pull. It just floors me that they are willing to allow unsafe hardware to avoid missing an arbitrary date someone stuck on a schedule somewhere.
Thank you for the happy Mother’s Day thoughts … it’s been so insane here I didn’t even realize it was the same day I posted!
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aFrankAngle said:
Here’s a reminder to help you cope at work … they have been struck by the stupid stick too many times.
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dragonfae said:
No kidding! And thanks for the giggle. π
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rastelly said:
Ren fair? I wish I cold hunker down and learn to sew, That chinese dragon
puppet isen’t going to finish itself. Sounds like you’ve been taking the lead.
That’s something to be proud of. Blogging can wait, do push yourself too
hard.
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dragonfae said:
I miss the blogging but it had to take a back seat for now. As it is I stay up way too late almost every night. π¦
Sewing can be a lot of fun, but some things are a bit challenging. One of the reasons I haven’t played with my new machine yet is all the buttons it has! I decided being able to embroider would be cool, but damn … looks like I might need a class to figure it all out! π
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rastelly said:
My brother works leather. He says all it takes is
determination and paitence. My dragon though is
basically a long tube, with a polymer head, I plan
to stuff it with plastic beans so that it can hang on
my sholders. Between writing, art and sculpting
though it can be hard to find the time. If you really
want it though, you can eventually make it happen.
It takes longer to learn these things by yourself,
but I’ve discovered a few things so it’s not
impossible.
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Dana said:
So nice to hear from you! It sounds like you are riding a rather turbulent wave of life stuff right now, but you do have Shasta to look forward to– down time is hopefully on its way!
I think it’s great that you are setting your own schedule at work and sticking to it. I never understood why doing things at our own pace would be a problem, so long as deadlines are kept and budgets aren’t overblown. Stick to your guns and keep at it– maybe the work twits will *finally* understand and appreciate everything when the satellite is launched and everything works out fine…
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dragonfae said:
I’m definitely looking forward to Shasta Dana! Two weeks this year … Woot!
On the work stuff … what should happen is that the twits ask for our input on the schedules. On big contracts, the company has to have some sort of master schedule so everyone knows when stuff needs to happen. But when you have stupid stuff randomly splattered … well, it’s too much chaos for most folks to figure out. So my (wasting time) doing my own schedules shouldn’t be necessary, but I see it as the only way to both make my point and inject some sanity into the fray. This is one of those cases where “It is what it is” is an appropriate statement. π
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Robin said:
It’s great to hear from you. Life can be too crazy and too busy for blogging at times. I’m about to enter just such a period soon.
Glad all is well and that you have some rest and relaxation time coming up soon. π
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dragonfae said:
I hope your crazy-busy period isn’t as bad as mine has been Robin. π
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